How do I love myself? My client said to me. She had no idea how to begin. She told me that she felt disconnected and also felt her Mum, who died afew years ago, didn’t love her. In fact the whole idea of a mother loving a baby daughter was an alien concept for her. A Mother loving a baby boy was ok. She didn’t feel love at all. So where do we begin?
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Love & Relationships
The Love Clinic
with International Trainer and Author Sandra Hillawi
Welcome to The Love Clinic, the place where broken hearts are mended, where anger and hurts are dissolved, where forgiveness is made easy and where we learn how to do relationships well, including the most important relationship with our self.
How important is it to learn how to love yourself? It can be life saving. Life is not always easy. At these times there is not always someone around to give us support. Our energy and emotional state may be low. Our stress, disturbed thinking and behaviour can hold us back in life, we don't function well and we make waves for others who have to deal with the state we are in. When we have love, we have more to give, we function well and our energy is attractive. We can bring ourselves back to love and wholeness by cultivating a loving relationship with ourself.
These three stories show how loving ourself can bring us back to a happy positive state of love.
I may be an Energy Trainer, I may be author of The Love Clinic, but I am not immune to the waves of life that I still must navigate on my own personal journey. In fact with an open heart I feel my life well and it’s not always easy. Knowing how to love and heal myself is life saving knowledge at the times when there is no-one else around.
Last week, my energy was low. I longed for someone to talk to about my situation and my feelings. But there was nobody available with the patience and capacity needed for me to lighten my own energy by sharing with another.
I tried to focus on my work but my low state stopped me doing anything. Instead I spent time in all kinds of distractions until I decided I had to deal with my energy by myself.
There may be many reasons for this situation arising in relationships when you feel you are not getting what you need. One partner may be absent, or ill, or stressed or emotionally unavailable for their own reasons. We all need energy and nourishment from our relationships. In such times of our need and when our main relationship is not around we look around for nourishment from other directions, other relationships. It can be a risky time for a relationship and a time when knowing how to love yourself is important to avoid future relationship problems arising.
My love was in hospital. I was far away. He needed an intervention for his heart. I was powerless to do anything. My heart was breaking. I felt a real pain in my heart for him in his health crisis and for my powerlessness. I couldn’t function. My heart really ached. There was nothing I could do except to heal my own heart break.
Saving a Marriage
Even the most devastating events and heart breaks can be healed as is demonstrated in this heart warming case study using EMO Energy in Motion (was EMO) to help a woman who discovered her husband had an affair. The article shows the healing journey over 7 EMO sessions during 2 days to:
How do I love myself? Thats a great place to start an important journey we all must make in our lives if we want to find true love and happiness independent of others.
But its not obvious to most people how to love yourself. There are also many ways to arrive at loving yourself. It may seem a daunting journey depending on your starting point yet the benefits of learning to love youself make it the most worthwhile journey that you can make in your life.
Here are 12 ways I learned and use to love myself. Hope they can inspire you also ....
Susan contacted me through my www.healingretreats.net website, looking for an emotional healing retreat. That week she had discovered her husband had had an affair. Susan was devastated. The hot pain of betrayal seared through her core, her future was no longer certain her self confidence had taken a real knock. After the revelation, whilst her husband then went on to have an epiphany and change of heart apologising profusely and wanting their marriage to continue, Susan was not so sure. He had broken their marriage vow and she wanted time away to decide what to do. Could she heal or was the marriage over? She booked a two day retreat with me leaving him to wrestle with his uncertainty and as we sat in the gardens of our Summer venue and under the shade of beautiful trees we had the following sessions using EMO. Was it possible to heal and repair Susan’s energy system, their relationship, heal her broken heart and her relationship with herself?
Join International Traıner Sandra Hillawi, author of The Love Clinic, to learn the energy secrets of love and relationshıps and transform your experience in love and relatıonships forever.
The Love Clinic workshops are open to everyone and take place as 1 and 2 day workshops both online by Skype and at various locations. These are hands-on experiential days that will be really transformational in your thinking, in your feeling, in your relationships and in your life. Read on for more details.
Sandra says “when it comes to finding or attracting a partner, the funny thing is, when you don’t have one nobody is interested. Then finally when you do find a partner, there seems to be loads of people now interested, yet you no longer need one. This is the ‘attractor factor’ at work.
EMO (was EMO) helps a woman who cant feel her husbands love
Sarah has been married for 4 years. 'I love my husband and he loves me but I can't feel his love, I cant accept his love'. We explored thıs energy dynamic wıth EMO discoverıng her sheilds and barriers to his love energy and after gentle step by step healing the client was able to let go of her shield and resistance and accept his love at last then later explained why she had the problem. This is how the session went.
Join Sandra Hillawi at the beautiful and relaxing Sedgwick Park House, West Sussex, for a weekend healing retreat aimed at releasing the stress in your life and your relationships using powerful techniques of EFT and EMO. This is an emotional healing and relaxation retreat at a special low price to help all budgets with the option to bring a friend free as your guest or share the fee. Next retreat is 6-7 October 2012
'He had an affair. My heart is broken. I love him but how can I ever trust him again?' These were the words from a colleague of mine which lead to my first healing story of The Love Clinic, healing love pain and helping improve relationships through the very different medium of modern energy work, in this case, namely EMO.
The Love Clinic in Action
Relationships are one of the sources of our deepest joy and happiness and also our deepest stress and pain when they go wrong or they end.
Healing and transforming relationships is one of the most rewarding applications for EMO (was EMO) and the following EMO session extract illustrates just how easy it can be to achieve this. Amy had left her relationship with John 6 weeks earlier...
This course contains audio recordings of Sandra Hillawi's 2 Day EMO Relationships Consultant Training. From a brand new perspective of exploring energy dynamics this course will reveal to you the energy secrets for understanding why relationships fail and how easy it can be to improve relationships and have more love in all areas of your life.
It is suitable for anyone who has a basic knowledge of EMO. Use this course for personal benefit to improve your own relationships and help friends and family, if you are an EMO Practitioner, to understand better how to help your clients with love and relationship problems.
These audio's bring Sandra Hillawi's much loved and popular book The Love Clinic to life and gives you the opportunity to help relationships in the following ways:
Sandra Hillawi, Emotional Energy Expert and Author of The Love Clinic explains:
When love hurts, when we aren’t getting the love we want from our relationships, when it seems that we are always rowing or tired and emotional, or we are drifting apart we need some new strategies to create changes in our relationships, to help us to start moving in new directions, towards more love and happiness.
Physical attraction is an important aspect of our relationships. It can make our relationship exciting and passionate which makes us feel good. Take a look at your partner. How strong is the physical attraction to him/her? Is it 10 out of 10? Or is it something less? Restoring or increasing that feeling of attraction to rekindle the passion is actually under our control ...
The Love Clinic by Sandra Hillawi
The 2nd Edition book is being launched in 2019
This is the perfect self help book for anyone wishing to find true love, in themselves, in their relationships with others and in their spiritual life.
Its still ahead of its time 10 years on and though EmoTrance is now Energy In Motion we still have a lot to learn about real love, to bring real love into our daily lives. Finding, walking and living the way of love is a blessing to us all when we rediscover it. The Love Clinic shows you how to get there.
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